Handsome guy dating ugly girl
Knowing that I have that pattern, I made a promise to myself to pick up on coldness whenever I find someone attractive and to walk away.
Yes, I know that may sound like a fairyland answer, but it’s often the truth.Here’s a short list of personality traits that make guys hot to us: This all being said, an unattractive man is still a man, and at the end of the day, we women have needs too!I find the vast, vast, vast majority of men unattractive.I have pock-marked skin, hooded eyes, and a bulbous nose.My voice is deep, which apparently makes me less desirable to men.Mostly it’s that I don’t have any physical attraction to them, but once in a while (about twice a year if I’m on a lot of dating sites, or once every few years if I’m not), I’ll meet someone I actually think is good looking (a hint here is that I find most celebrities physically unattractive, apparently my sex drive is picky but I couldn’t tell you why – although I DO have a high sex drive…).
However, I’m also aware having been through a lot of therapy after numerous and significant mental health difficulties (eating disorders etc.) that I tend to date cold or unavailable men and then not ask for more and maintain that emotional distance – essentially, I seem to have been in a habit of avoiding intimacy by going out with people I don’t find attractive, or more often than I’d like to admit, men who I know are gay before I even ask them out…otherwise they’re narcissistic or give mixed messages, or aren’t close in some way etc.
Haven’t you ever met a girl you thought was the hottest thing in the world, then once you got to know her… And after you know how lame she is, you may still think she’s hot, but you’re just not really to her.
Or how about a girl who barely caught your eye at first, but became incredibly sexy after a good conversation?
Now, this is all good news for you, because it means that you have control over your sex appeal.
Even if you weren’t born looking like Brad Pitt, women will find you sexy.
They have found that having an 'unusual' appearance can be a good way to charm a mate.