Friend dating your ex girlfriend
Although Matt Saunders the protagonist of the movie played by Luke Wilson had the hottie and a super women (no pun intended), Jenny Johnson played by Uma Thurman as his super hot ex-girlfriend, and it turned out all well in end, it might not for you.Dating an ex-girlfriend is like riding an old bike; you have the old feeling with it, it might be unpredictable and erratic.
The first thing to do, is to be able to get your emotions in check if they are currently out of control.If your association with your friend goes back to your school days and you share a mutual trust, then you should look for another girl. If your friend is a ‘no-hassle’ kind of guy and may not nurture any ill feelings whatsoever to the idea of you dating his ex-girlfriend, then go ahead and make the first move. If the relationship had ended on a bitter note, then it may not be fair to hurt your friend’s sentiments by dating his ex.Find out why the relationship between your friend and his ex end. If your friend had left his ex for another girl, then there is no scope for feeling guilty or carrying any kind of emotional baggage for dating your his ex.Like every cloud has a silver lining, every girl has a past, an ex-boyfriend to be precise.But Jim was not the type to get intimidated about her past life or her ex, not until he discovered that this ‘perfect’ girl was his friend’s ex-girlfriend.There are a few guys who are overtly possessive about their girls and sometimes even about their ex. Or is he the kind who wouldn't really care if you went after his ex?
If he belong to the latter type, then there is no problem in dating his ex.
The problem is too often we are so busy trying to be friends with our ex that we’re not moving on in our own lives.
You want your new girlfriend and your old girlfriend to get along and be friends.
This applies to the woman who has been your girlfriend, lover or partner for a while.
And if you’re trying to be friends and are discovering it’s like sticking splinters in your eyeballs, then you’ll appreciate this a lot: You don’t have to be friends with your ex.
this is a very dicy question If you had said "Best Friend" it would have been a different matter and besides it depends on how the breakup happened and for me as long as they've not had carnal knowledge of each other, kini big deal. Plus if the friend is cool with it as well as both parties getting involved, then its i guess its ok. now instead of saying diddy $%^& me, she will put it this way; diddy and his friend %^*& me. is just like giving yourself to be used cuzz it wont last.