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Ended up running into dude again, we exchanged pleasantries and later went our separate ways.

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(If you don’t believe this right now, simply the act of communicating these words will have a profoundly positive effect on him and actually help create more respect and appreciation – because you get what you give!He and I eventually found our way into a side conversation and hit it off. It was nothing serious, but it was definitely a good time.Before he left, he asked me for my number to keep in touch and that was that.Even better, as D' OB astutely notes again, sex/relationships are "like a see-saw or tennis, [a thing] that two people can do together if they both feel like it and if doing so would be enjoyable for both parties." Dating/Getting Laid is not an achievement to be unlocked. But it's ALSO not the fault of the ladies-- because ladies, you were lied to as well. ) partner was to play it coy, to pretend you're not interested, to make him "earn" your love. It is similarly fine to be intimate on the first date.What you didn't realize that every time you said "no" when you meant "yes," you undermined the validity of some other girl's "no" that meant "no"-- and that left her vulnerable to guys who wouldn't take "no" for an answer. Society laid down a bunch of rules ages ago, and each gender makes individual missteps that cause the other one to chain react in a cycle of doom/resentment. What matters is that you are clear about what you do (or at least, what you do NOT) want.A couple of days went by and I hadn’t heard from him, so I figured it was what it was.

He was a nice guy, and I enjoyed our time, but I wasn’t sweatin him. A couple of weeks ago, I went out for some drinks with my friends.

See, for most men, when a woman tells them something that isn’t great about their relationship, men take it very personally.

He’ll instantly feel like you are blaming him – even though you might not be. Men like to think and believe that the woman they’re with respects them and sees them as a great man.

So when a woman shares something that isn’t “perfect,” a man will take it as you thinking that he is not good enough – and not just that something happened in your relationship that can easily be changed or improved in the future.

Here’s your action plan: sit down with him today at some time when you’re both settled and relaxed.

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