Be more open to dating
It’s pretty common for men to date younger women – which is exactly why dating older women is so enjoyable. Because there are a ton of fantastic advantages you can experience by dating older women. Here are just 6 (though there are many more) of the best things about dating older women.
More than 40 percent of millenials think marriage is “becoming obsolete” (compared to 43 percent of Gen Xers, 35 percent of baby boomers, and 32 percent of people aged 65-plus). In fourth grade, I got in trouble with my boyfriend because he found out I had another boyfriend.Throughout high school and college, some of my relationships overlapped, and some were purely dishonest.But society told me I had to be with one person at a time, with the goal of choosing one person forever. After a really great, long-term, successfully monogamous relationship ended, I was suddenly single in my late twenties and enjoying the freedom and the variety. Adam was fun and our chemistry was fantastic and rare, and though we kept it strictly physical, with those boundaries clearly defined throughout, spending time together was becoming the highlight.I would often fall into a cycle of trying to make that work but eventually letting temptation get the best of me, and failing both parties of the relationship; especially my partner. Eventually, the inevitable conversation came up naturally about what we were, and what we could be.Also, many of the commonly held beliefs about dating a younger man or woman — for instance, that a junior partner may lack maturity — aren’t true, relationship expert and columnist April Masini told Fox News.
“There are plenty of younger people who are a lot more mature than older men and women, and who are such go-getters that they're more successful than people twice their age,” Masini said.
Or as Dan Savage calls it, we are “monogamish.” Even that can look really different from relationship to relationship.
One married couple I’m friends with has a couple of girlfriends between them, and they also have their own partners (she has both male and female partners, and he has female partners).
S., and in 2010, an estimated eight million couples were practicing some form of nonmonogamy.
Even among married couples, open relationships can be successful; some studies suggest they’re common in gay marriages.
Stand up straight and keep your movements controlled and purposeful (avoid fidgeting).